Does this sound familiar?
You feel lost.
You don’t know how you’re going to make ends meet.
Child exchanges are traumatic.
You can’t envision a happy future.
Your emotional and physical wellbeing are at an all-time low.
You’re in the right place to find a better path forward:
I offer compassionate guidance, personalized practical financial advice, and the support you need to restore your health, wealth, and happiness on the other side of divorce.
Take control of your future
Having someone on your team who truly understands the emotional, financial, legal, and real-life implications of a family law matter is a game-changer. I can help you:
Identify your needs
Define your goals
Create a plan forward
Develop a budget
Make informed decisions
Enforce healthy boundaries
Co-parent with your ex
Find work you enjoy
Design a life you love living
Make informed decisions
Working with a Divorce Financial Analyst takes the guess work out of asset distribution and property division. I will ensure you have what you need to approach settlement from an informed and empowered position. I provide:
Child and spousal support analysis
Budgeting and income planning
Separate property tracing
Lifestyle analysis
Marital waste analysis
Property division proposals
Pension valuations
Find effective solutions
Mediation can be a highly effective alternative to traditional family law proceedings, even in high-conflict situations. It reduces legal costs, promotes creative solutions, and allows parties to avoid a one-size-fits-nobody court decision. It can promote healing and build healthier communication patterns, providing a solid foundation for a new beginning. I offer:
Mediation Preparation
Mediation Advocacy
Affordable Mediator Services
Zoom or in-person (locally)
Words from happy clients
I would never have emotionally survived divorcing my narcissistic ex without the transformational support of Jes Holst. Her clear understanding of the inner workings of the legal system, coupled with her depth of experience working with survivors of narcissistic abuse, makes her an invaluable resource. You will need her to help you navigate the daily mayhem that your abusive ex is throwing your way, but you will stay for her quick wit, her dry humor, and her fierce dedication to your empowerment and healing. Hire her immediately (if she's available!). She will change your life. She has absolutely changed mine. - Dr. M.M.
Going through a family law matter is one of the hardest things you’ll ever do.
Hi, I’m Jes. I know being a party in a family law matter is emotionally draining and overwhelming. One day you're living your normal life, and the next, you're trying to make high-stakes, high-pressure decisions about your future while everything you've ever known is in pieces on the floor. You feel lost and it is a struggle just to get through each day, let alone find a way forward. I've been there, and I get it. It is scary, it hurts, and it feels like you'll never be happy again. The good news is that it gets better, and you don't have to figure it out alone like I did.
I created Wise Way Divorce Solutions to to help people just like you:
restore hope
establish stability, and
create a secure and happy future
So you can get through this hell and on to living a life you love. I look forward to hearing from you!
I am professionally qualified to be your guide:
Certified Divorce Financial Analyst- CDFA(R)
Certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach
Certified High-Conflict Family Law Mediator
High-Conflict Co-Parenting Coach
B.A. in Communication
WA APR 6 Graduate
Certified Trauma-Informed RYT